feat: support ggml backend select and enhance the build system #2245

Job	Run time
ubuntu-latest-cmake-vulkan	7m 4s
windows-latest-rocm	20m 8s
macOS-latest-cmake	2m 50s
windows-latest-cmake (cuda12, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_RPC=ON -DGGML_CUDA=ON -DGGML_BACKEND_DL=ON...	2m 35s
windows-latest-cmake (vulkan, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_RPC=ON -DGGML_VULKAN=ON -DGGML_BACKEND_DL=ON)	2m 39s
ubuntu-latest-rocm (7.11.0, gfx906;gfx908;gfx90a;gfx942;gfx950;gfx1100;gfx1101;gfx1102;gfx1150;gf...	53m 9s
ubuntu-latest-cmake	5m 0s
ubuntu-latest-rocm (7.2, gfx908;gfx90a;gfx942;gfx1100;gfx1101;gfx1151;gfx1150;gfx1200;gfx1201, x64)	52m 30s
windows-latest-cmake (cpu, -DGGML_NATIVE=OFF -DGGML_RPC=ON -DGGML_BACKEND_DL=ON -DGGML_CPU_ALL_VA...	2m 27s
Build and push container images	0s
release	0s
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