[Feature]: Update providers without asking

[smonev]

Before submitting

• I searched existing issues and did not find a duplicate.
• I am describing a concrete problem or use case, not just a vague idea.

Area

apps/desktop

Problem or use case

I start t3 code each couple of days, and it seems each time I start there is a new version of t3 code AND new providers updates.

Expected: Start t3 code, do work.
Actual: Start t3 code, see update notifications -> FOMO -> update (5 mins), forget why you started t3 code, write this bug report.

Proposed solution

Update providers automatically
Use less aggressive notifications for new versions of t3 code

Why this matters

Less friction.

Smallest useful scope

Auto update providers.

Alternatives considered

No response

Risks or tradeoffs

No response

Examples or references

No response

Contribution

• I would be open to helping implement this.