docs: document deriving loading state from the request queue

[BartekObudzinski]

Explanation of Change

Documentation only. Adds a developer guide for deriving loading state from the request queue, so new screens follow the pattern instead of re-introducing stuck-skeleton bugs from stored loading flags.

• New page contributingGuides/LOADING_STATE.md: the problem (stored flags and data === undefined checks are shadows of the queue that drift on reload/crash/dropped response), the pattern (useInFlightRequests per-group hooks + the per-screen useIsXPending() && !isOffline gate), how to add a new group, the invariant that only WRITE commands land in the queue (so a READ/side-effect command would make a hook return false forever), the READ-command exception (Search derives pending from its own snapshot lifecycle state instead), how to choose between the two approaches, and migration discipline.
• One discoverability bullet added to contributingGuides/SEQUENTIAL_QUEUE.md pointing at the new page.

No runtime code changes.

Fixed Issues

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Tests

1. Open contributingGuides/LOADING_STATE.md on GitHub and verify it renders (headings, tables, code blocks).
2. Verify the new link in contributingGuides/SEQUENTIAL_QUEUE.md resolves to the new page.

• Verify that no errors appear in the JS console

Offline tests

Not applicable (documentation only).

QA Steps

Not applicable (documentation only).

• Verify that no errors appear in the JS console

PR Author Checklist

• I linked the correct issue in the ### Fixed Issues section above
• I wrote clear testing steps that cover the changes made in this PR
  • I added steps for local testing in the Tests section
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  • Android: mWeb Chrome
  • iOS: Native
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Screenshots/Videos

Android: Native

Android: mWeb Chrome

iOS: Native

iOS: mWeb Safari

MacOS: Chrome / Safari