Add SQL test triage guide and focused test rerun make targets

[seanwevans]

Motivation

• Provide a documented, repeatable workflow for capturing and triaging the first failing SQL test to reduce noise and speed root-cause analysis.
• Make it easy to run a single SQL test file or print the ordered test list to shorten the local debug loop and avoid full-suite runs during investigation.
• Enforce per-failure artifacts (root-cause note, fix commit, regression assertion) and a post-fix checklist to prevent cross-test state leakage and track recurring failure signatures until resolved.

Description

• Added docs/test-triage.md with sections for capturing the first failing test, how to rerun a single SQL test file, failure classification (logic bug, migration drift, env/setup, nondeterminism), required artifacts per failure, a post-fix isolation checklist, and a small known-failures tracking table.
• Updated makefile to add focused test helpers: test-one (run one SQL test via TEST=...), test-one-verbose (verbose single-file run), and test-list (print the ordered TESTS list), and expanded .PHONY accordingly while preserving the existing test target.
• Fixed a makefile formatting/continuation issue encountered while inserting the new targets so the test-list recipe prints $(TESTS) correctly when invoked.

Testing

• Validated makefile formatting iteratively (fixed an initial missing-separator/tab issue), and confirmed the test-list recipe is present and prints the TESTS list when the environment provides PGXS.
• Ran make test-list in the current environment which failed because the host is missing the PostgreSQL PGXS include (/usr/lib/postgresql/16/lib/pgxs/src/makefiles/pgxs.mk), so full make invocation could not be executed here.
• No automated SQL test-suite runs were performed in this environment because the required PostgreSQL build infrastructure was unavailable.

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